My sister snatched my husband..what do i do?

 Hi girl on a shelf,

I am Bola and I needed some opinion on my relationship with my sister. The truth is I think I hate her. Our relationship has become somewhat complicated over the years and this is why.

I met Francis four years ago on Facebook, and we became good friends, he was abroad and was doing quite well in his business, after a year, he proposed to me because he would be coming down to Nigeria in a little while and according to him, he needed a wife because he was ready to settle down.

A month later, he told me he would be coming down in two weeks, and i was very much excited because I haven’t seen or met my fiance face to face before. My sister was a youth corper in Lagos and when my told us she was coming down to the village to see us with her fiancĂ©, I was excited too because I wanted them all to meet my fiancĂ© too and the fact that both of us where bringing a man home at the same time didn’t fail to excite our parents.

Later that week, my sister came to the village with her so called fiancĂ© who to my surprise was the same person as mine, imagine the pain and pandemonium that broke loose that day. I explained everything and my sister said she didn’t care that she loved him and would still marry him.

And two months later, they got married and they have a beautiful baby boy according to my mother because I have not seen or talked to her ever since because I have this burning hatred in me for her. Please advise me , am I wrong to hate her for what she did?

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