The "do's" and "don'ts" that women should take note of in their relationships.
*(don't) Criticize him: Most women criticize their men a lot. They
come to you for support not criticism. Even if their actions and
opinions are wrong, you should gently point them out,but don't criticize
him.
*(do) Total honesty: I'm not going to start analyzing the reason why women lie to their men, because most women lie for no just reason, but try to be honest with him, it will boost the trust level in your relationship.
*(don't) Neglect him: Most women don't intentionally do this but it happens. They neglect their men without intending to. Always make out time for him no matter how busy you are. Create an alone time for both of you to be together. It will strengthen the feeling you both have for each other.
*(do) Understand him: Understanding is one of the ingredient for a great relationship, try to understand him. The things he doesn't like, don't do them, the things he likes, do them.
*(don't )Conclude without Asking: Women read too much meaning into something quite simple. always ask him the things you don't understand. Get to know him. Never conclude or assume.
*(do) Pay attention and listen: Always try and pay attention to him and listen to him when he talks to you especially when he tries telling you something in confidence. Its not easy for a man to tell his woman things sometimes, so whenever he does, do listen!.
*(don't) Expect more than he can give: you know what he can offer you, so don't expect more than he can give, if you can't be contented with that, you tell him.
*(do) Accept him the way he is: don't try changing him to what he can't be, you might change the man he is- negatively. Just accept him the way he is.
*(do) Total honesty: I'm not going to start analyzing the reason why women lie to their men, because most women lie for no just reason, but try to be honest with him, it will boost the trust level in your relationship.
*(don't) Neglect him: Most women don't intentionally do this but it happens. They neglect their men without intending to. Always make out time for him no matter how busy you are. Create an alone time for both of you to be together. It will strengthen the feeling you both have for each other.
*(do) Understand him: Understanding is one of the ingredient for a great relationship, try to understand him. The things he doesn't like, don't do them, the things he likes, do them.
*(don't )Conclude without Asking: Women read too much meaning into something quite simple. always ask him the things you don't understand. Get to know him. Never conclude or assume.
*(do) Pay attention and listen: Always try and pay attention to him and listen to him when he talks to you especially when he tries telling you something in confidence. Its not easy for a man to tell his woman things sometimes, so whenever he does, do listen!.
*(don't) Expect more than he can give: you know what he can offer you, so don't expect more than he can give, if you can't be contented with that, you tell him.
*(do) Accept him the way he is: don't try changing him to what he can't be, you might change the man he is- negatively. Just accept him the way he is.
Nice piece but I dnt see ladies of dis genration adhering to dis principles u hv outlined here Natash
ReplyDeleteGreat Piece, I wish more ladies can read this, #forward2allgirls
ReplyDeleteThe world will be a better place if ladies can try to adhere to this steps,we ll have less violence in homes and divorce,
ReplyDeleteWell... Anything that you call a dog,thats what it will definitely answer to. Accepting someone the way he or she is is very good, the only thing that is Maybe advisable is to learn how to adapt and most importantly temper control it's of great paramount.
ReplyDeleteNice one...truth be told!
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