REASONS WHY MOST MARRIAGES FAIL....Stages people forget to pass through in their relationships
Dating is reality, it has to do with understanding ,compatibility, and not just love but maturity and trust.
There are three different stages in relationships,
1. THE KNOWING STAGE : This is were they both come together and talk, he likes her and tells her how he feels about her, and they decide to date
You get to know each other in this stage.
2. THE INTIMATE STAGE : There is a level of commitment and seriousness. You talk about your goals, vision, and future of your relationship. Relationships helps you build your emotional socialization and helps you develop your mentality , maturity, personality and ideologies .
3. COURTSHIP :It is in courtship that you get to know your partner better. There are certain questions you have to ask a guy or woman you are in a relationship with. Your relationship has to firm you up and make you better. You need to know your partners sex life, their likes and dislikes, what they want and what you need from your partner too.
Ladies take note that the three major things men love are sex,loyalty and respect.
As ladies , see beyond your relationship , guys hate ladies that do not have principles or standards.
Courtship is really necessary to hold when it comes to marriage issues... Though people nowadays sees it as wasting of time.
ReplyDeleteNo stone left unturned. Great piece!
ReplyDeleteLadies take note that the three major things men love are SEX,LOYALTY and RESPECT...
ReplyDeleteNice work, Cynthia.
learnt alot from this post,shoutout to the women who hold it down for their men,100percent loyalty,they make the world a better place..
ReplyDeleteThese are very thoughtful words as relationships these days have gone so so very bad.... And something of note is this,..... Nothing beats a lady with class and humility..... Those are very difficult qualities to posses at the same time but then when you find a woman like that..... Brother you are blessed...
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