IS IT WRONG TO HATE MY SISTER FOR STEALING MY HUSBAND TO BE?

Hi girl on a shelf,

I am Bola and I needed some opinion on my relationship with my sister. The truth is I think I hate her. Our relationship has become somewhat complicated over the years and this is why.

I met Francis four years ago on Facebook, and we became good friends, he was abroad and was doing quite well in his business, after a year, he proposed to me because he would be coming down to Nigeria in a little while and according to him, he needed a wife because he was ready to settle down.

A month later, he told me he would be coming down in two weeks, and i was very much excited because I haven’t seen or met my fiancé face to face before. My sister was a youth corper in Lagos and when my told us she was coming down to the village to see us with her fiancé, I was excited too because I wanted them all to meet my fiancé too and the fact that both of us where bringing a man home at the same time didn’t fail to excite our parents.

Later that week, my sister came to the village with her so called fiancé who to my surprise was the same person as mine, imagine the pain and pandemonium that broke loose that day. I explained everything and my sister said she didn’t care that she loved him and would still marry him.

And two months later, they got married and they have a beautiful baby boy according to my mother because I have not seen or talked to her ever since because I have this burning hatred in me for her. Please advise me , am I wrong to hate her for what she did?