DOUBLE STANDARDS

Double standards has been a third party in most relationships especially in this part of the world. For those of us who don't know, double standards refers to how genders expect their opposites to act, generally in a sexual manner. For example, you expect a faithful spouse when you are less than faithful.
 Double standards whether big or small can threaten your relationship. It is therefore very vital that you learn to recognize the signs and the risks can be reduced. Double standards are unfair treatments and surprisingly it is everywhere. You might be doing it right now and not know it. It can occur without premeditation or malice. It can also be small and unassuming.
 Do you feel like your opinions don't matter in your relationship? do you feel like they do the same things they complain that you do? Its possible your partner does not realize you feel that way. There are some double standards that can make you see red. lol. did he ask you to dump your best male friend when he has a best female friend? The good news is that you can work through the double standards in your relationship. talk about it. Have an open conversation about it. By clearing the air,you might prevent future arguments because double standards are a source of arguments most times in relationships.
 There are bigger double standards and they usually cause serious and permanent damages. it can include cheating, having affairs,unfair accusations,lying,cover-ups, etc.
 The golden rule to dissolving double standards and bringing more equality to your relationships is to "do unto others what you want others to do to you". Treat your partner how you want to be treated.