WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM A LIFE PARTNER?

The "what so I want in a partner" saga has been going on for a long time,its not a recent development. When you ask a woman "what do you want in a life partner?" She goes into a  long fairytale such as "I want a tall, godfearing, caring,loving,chocolate or fair in complexion man!" And when you ask the man, hoping to get a more intelligent reply, "I want a woman with hour glass figure,respectful, good Cook, good in bed,short and curvy. You begin to notice a pattern, most of what they want is physical,not long lasting and its infatuating.
At the same time, we notice that 70% of youths don't know what they truly want in a life partner and 39% of the married couples are just finding out that what they initially wanted in a life partner isn't actually what they want now. This is why you need to look beyond what you see to know the kind of life partner you want because as you grow, you begin to loose interest in some of the things you used to like, you begin to change both emotionally and intellectually but inspite of the changes, there are things that includes your principles that doesn't change because its part of your core makeup, its deeper than you think. This is why you need to look deep,search inside of you, meditate, pray and talk to God, ask for direction. It doesn't matter how long it takes to get an answer because when you do, trust me, its worth it and when you get your answer,don't let fear or society make you settle for less. So do this and tell me how it works out for you!.
Write out all the characters and things you want in a life partner and also all the flaws you can't take in a life partner and also the characters you can tolerate or change in your partner. Do this in a private journal and  pray with it until you've found the one!! Don't forget, never settle for less than what you truly want!!.