WHAT WOMEN SHOULD DO BEFORE THINKING OF MARRIAGE

This issue has been on my mind lately and I want to use this platform to address all the ladies and to any one who has a woman in their lives. Ladies, forgive me if  this is presumptuous but I have a question, what is the rush? What is this obsessive preoccupation with marriage? I'm not saying its wrong to   get married but at the same time its good to be cautious.
Most times we are the reason for our pains, why won't men use it against us? They think its the only thing we want out of life which is not supposed to be. We were made for more, God made us for more. It is very important that as a lady you find yourself first before getting married, this is simply to say that you have to know who you are, what you want out of life and what your purpose in life is. When you know this, its easier to know the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with, if his purpose in life and what you want out of life will be compatible enough. This is the mistake most ladies make, what you want matters very much in a marriage. Its not just about the man, it takes two to make a marriage work!Don't marry someone who will not support your dreams because at the end of the day, regret starts to set in and that is followed by bitterness. Marriage is not to be rushed,try to achieve something by yourself instead of trying to achieve a man. Early marriage has been known not to last in some cases and this is because the Lady doesn't know what she's getting into. I'm not saying that young women are to blame for bad marriages but I'm saying that getting into a marriage without first finding yourself leaves you to be blamed for your unhappiness. Be wise #5050noexcuse