MISTAKE NO. 2 WOMEN MAKE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS... Trying to force change on their men

In  real life, its very difficult to change a human being, that said, its difficult to change a man In the relationship.  Many young ladies who had a crush on a guy they have feelings for,and were able get to such guys front  and win their heart often fail when it comes to winning the battle within the guy of which they know nothing of before hand and when it happens that way, the world of such ladies seem to go into accelerated confusion.
Not willing to quit, they would try harder which sometimes backfires.
It is possible that a man would change, and you can only have accelerated this by not being a "change agent"  but "an agent of change" this means that you shouldnt force change on a man but allow the man to change because he loves you and want a lifestyle that can accomodate the both of you.

So ladies, please do not try to force change on your man,  allow him change for you and because of you because other that reason ladies, he wont change ever.